Why did I embark in this journey?

Brokenhearted. That´s it.

The story of brother Kermit hit a very deep note inside me. This journey has taken me to places that I never imagined existed or were still alive...his teachings are allowing me to connect with the real me, and brothers, I am proud of it...I am proud of re-connecting...to gather the lost pieces in the puzzle of my life and push myself forward to reach the hidden treasure, in the realm of my real being. I would not trade this treasure for a million dollar case. No Sir! What I have inside me is WAY worthier.

Brother Kermit doesn´t know it, or maybe he does. The thing is...He´s my guru. And I see in the future that I will say to the world...THIS IS THE MAN THAT SAVED MY LIFE.

- Gallo.

When I first ordered this book, I was skeptical if I’m going to get anything out of reading someone’s life story. However, after reading the story of Frank B. Kermit, I was inspired to work harder in my own seducer in development.

Loser to Seducer is about Frank’s journey from the time he started on his seducer in development, to the relationship coach he is now. I especially enjoyed the beginning of the book, it really related to me the most. The three major events that caused Frank to push him to get better with women, was well written like a novel. It is interesting to see someone with little to no passive value, to become successful with women. After the beginning, the book goes into Frank’s time starting a harem, getting that redemption with a girl and some of his most interesting things that has happened to him on his journey.

I think no matter level of development or however advanced you are in pick up, Frank’s story in Loser to Seducer will relate to you in some way. For me, it was the beginning because I can relate to the pain he went through. If you are a beginner in seduction or pick up, this book can help you because it teaches you to be realistic about your goals and development (e.g. listening and respecting your mentors, at the same time bewaring what they might say which could be false).

If you looking for a book to teach you game, Loser to Seducer is not the book for you. Similar to Neil Strauss’ The Game, Loser to Seducer gives you a perspective from someone else and their development, not a way to teach things to you. That being said, if you are looking for some inspiration for your development, then Loser to Seducer would make a great read.
-Rockstar in Toronto

From Loser to Seducer is the story of a man who could easily have been me or one of my friends. More importantly, it is insight into a man given in detail that most men would get choked up about trying to verbalize, never mind writing down and publishing. For every woman who has ever wondered what's going on in a man's mind, wonder no more.
The author describes his journey from being unable to maintain steady relationships with woman, to gain a true understanding that runs contrary to the politically correct view of human relationships. This is a man who's not getting what he wants, and when the conventional wisdom fails him, he discovers his own. In the process he overcomes a pain familiar to most men, and discovers that being in control of your own life brings with it a new set of challenges.
The most interesting part of the book for this reader was the truth that true love comes from ignorance about how it works; that knowing how to create love destroys it's mystery and makes it common, since it is easily replaced if lost. Ignorance is truly bliss. I think I finally understand why some women have shown so much hostility to the idea of learning seduction.-SumYungGi

I just finished reading From Loser to Seducer last night. It was a real page turner and a very honest story of pain, redemption and personal achievement. In the book, Frank says that behind every great seducer is a story of personal pain and anguish - and he's right. He writes about the final strikeouts with the women in his life that led him to commit to his personal transformation. I found this to be really relatable because I've been there. I could really relate to his past feelings of isolation and hopelessness when it comes to women. Then to see the steps he took to turn it all around, it was inspiring.

Frank devotes many pages to his personal escapades with women and the various problems and internal emotions that arise. I found these stories to be quite an interesting read - particularly his accounts of his foray into the swinger community. Although I'm not sure that it's something I'd like to pursue, the way these people view sexuality is very open and liberating.

There is also a fair bit of solid seduction information in the book. Inside you will find an introduction to Frank's 10 Emotional Needs of women, guidelines to getting back the one that got away and the 10 rules of a harem master. He also lists some of the habits and mindframes that helped him attain so much knowledge in seduction.

I think what I gained most from this book was that it shattered many of my old mindframes. It taught me what women are truly capable of in both good and bad ways - ranging from manipulation to complete sexual inhibition. It taught me to question the socially imprinted models of relationships and monogamy. Apparently having more than one girlfriend at a time is actually easier than managing just one! How counter intuitive. Finally it taught me that no matter how low you have sunk in life, there is always the opportunity to redeem yourself and truly get a handle on your lovelife - or as Frank puts it: To get to "the other side of the canyon." - Feenik in Toronto

A Pat On The Back For A Good Book Of Advice

I actually wasn't all that sure what to expect from From Loser to Seducer because I knew Frank Kermit had an inner game book and an "outter" game book, so what was left? Well actually, it didn't matter because I was only looking for a bit of inspiration, from the story of someone else on the journey of change, when I ordered the book and I got that plus a lot more. I think this is Kermit's least hyped publication when you look at what it offers.
I found most of the lessons and guides inside to be helpful and all of them to be interesting. AND, it was interesting to see where a lot of Frank's teaching have been actually written down and the context where they are used and where they came from.
While reading I remember being drawn in and feeling the negative emotion when they were described and then remembering very similar situations I had been in. So, I learned to appreciate the length/scale and intensity of the journey and how to put it all in proper perspective.

The biggest things I learned revolved around how to deal with the one that got away, how to deal with girl's who have boyfriend issues and how to deal with old flames. All things I've had to do, but have not done well until now. It still petrifies me to think about talking to the girls who were involved in my "last strikes" but not as much. Also, dealing with state management. While the book doesn't really spend much time explaining how exactly to develop that skill, it gives you an idea of what to shoot for.

Overall, it's a better book than I thought it would be and I can recommend it anyone who is already on there way to permanent change. I think I was in the perfect in my development to get it. If you've read the other two book by Brother Kermit and liked them you'll like this one too and the nice thing about the nature of this book and the fact that it's auto-biographical means, it'll be good for anyone who's interested in a very honest story of redemption.
-Artisan in Toronto

A male friend of mine lent me his copy of Loser to Seducer which is Frank's autobiography. Frank B. Kermit’s autobiography is a journey describing how he become involved in the Seduction Community and evolved to the person he is today. I found it very interesting to learn about the pain that motivated him to become a person many would consider a Seduction guru and/or Relationship Expert. I think the pain and struggle someone in the Seduction Community experiences is often overlooked and this book paints a realistic picture as it explores the amount of hard work, dedication and passion it takes to change oneself. From Loser to Seducer is a compilation of his personal experiences but it also mentions some of his relationship theories and beliefs. As a female, although I personally do not agree with all of his choices or beliefs I admire how he emphasizes honesty with women. He never encourages lying or manipulation. Other ideas that I found intriguing were harem management, the emotional needs model, chump love versus seducer love and if a seducer can find true love if he is always able to find someone “better” the next day. Having recently met Frank and his wife, I look forward to the next installment of his autobiography to learn more about him, his journey and how and why he decided to marry. - TigerLilly, a female reader in Toronto

I sat down and read through Frank's book, "From Loser to Seducer" and I'll be honest. It's a great read. Frank conveys his personality quite well in this book but as reader/writer, it definitely would've added value with some minor corrections made (spelling/grammar/etc). I would gladly proof-read any future works you have in mind.

I took a lot away from this book. Frank's openness about his past and how he culminated into the man he is today truly demonstrated that he fought many demons to get where he is. It's an inspiration and a motivation to everyone who reads it. Not only that, Frank's book shows the positives and negatives of harem management, the pitfalls of trying to get back together with an ex, and overall, reinforces that we should always be looking at the emotional needs of women first and foremost. It is the reason we will both hook up and break up with them.

Something that was said in the book reminded me of a quote:
If you seek answers about yourself, look in the mirror.

Anyone in PU community should take a read through this book - and be reminded about why you're here.

~Reeves in Toronto

Let me start with the positive. I really enjoyed and benefited from your "In Conclusion" pages. Again, you offer some real sound advice, the best of which for me is NO. 7- "When some one who is better than you are with women is offering advice or answering your question, SHUT UP and LISTEN TO HIM for f*ck's sake" Actually, this can be applied for any area of life that you want to improve in. Shut up and listen when some one is better in something that you want to improve in and is offering advice or answering your question. All the points in IN Conclusion have been really helpful in getting my priorities straight. Now for the negative stuff. Perhaps I should have given "From Loser to Seducer " a second reading but to be perfectly frank (pardon the pun) I was not really into reading about your numerous sexual adventures nor do I understand why you use the term "loser" to categorize your state prior to "redemption"-B.C. Seems you were getting laid adequately even then. Maybe our definitions of "losers" are different. I also guess harem management is also not my thing although I understand some of your readers will find your insight and advice very helpful. I have not listed them here but there are numerous typo errors in your texts. Do your self a favor and get a good editor. Let me temper some of negative comments on your book "From Loser To Seducer" with this realization. Maybe as this was your first book you were just getting to define your "voice" and with your second book "Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test"you found your literary voice. I am not denying the value of your first book. I think you speak from the heart. However, as a teenager I was not into reading Penthouse Forum nor was I really into reading about your sexual experiences. That was and is my own personal preference. While I have not yet read your other books, I think that "Every Thing Out of Her Mouth is a Test" is your magnum opus and a very important read for any heterosexual man interested in maintaining control of his relationships. - A review from Perry M. in Japan

In your book From Loser to Seducer you based it on your life experiences good and bad ones. It really surprised me to see that you revealed personal information to the world. I am sure it was well worth it. Getting back your ex-fiance must of been an amazing feeling. Well you know Frank, it touched me very much too see that your ex-fiance gave you feedback on this book. I am so happy that your inner most feelings were revealed in this matter and things came to a closure with that special woman. I remember being with you after that weekend of "redemption" and then losing her again. I remember being there for you. I know the book contained a lot of other experiences that changed you as a person, BUT I concentrated more on the experience with your ex-fiance because I can relate with your experiences. You see when I was dating you at the time, who I loved very much, I felt that you did not return the same kind of love I felt for you the way she did not return the love you had for her. I had a really hard time after we broke up because I truly loved you..I felt that I would never meet someone like you again.
I agree with your statement on FORGIVENESS. Forgiving yourself does play an important role because it gives us the inner peace that allows us too move on in our lives. Frank, this book did work for you in getting that closure with your ex-fiance and it worked for me as well; in reading it, it helped me get closure with you. You see if I would have not looked into it, I would have never gotten to this point..
Thank you for giving me the chance to begin a new friendship with you. Hope I can meet you and your wife in the near future. Thank you again and keep on writing more interesting books. -Frank's Ex-Girlfriend (#4 of 5 of his harem)

If you would like to learn more about Frank B Kermit this is your book. If you consider being a Pick Up Artist or Seducer all the way, this is a book for you. It is a really honest story about Frank. It is very detailed which makes it complete and easy to read. One of the many things I liked was how and why Frank turned his life around. Another thing are the stories. I have never seen a better book about the consequences of becoming great with women. Many good things will happen, but being a seducer/pick up artist is not a life without problems. This book is really shows you that bad things can happen and how people can get hurt. It really made me think about what I wanted in my life and why. This book taught me how you can even your own worst enemy and how to change that. Even more, this book is a great motivation for me. -Mathmann, Denmark

I just read most of "From Loser to Seducer". I have to say some of it brought tears to my eyes. I could feel his pain and willfulness to change. If you have experienced his type of pain you will really relate to it. You'll also witness the positive changes in his life. Now when I'm with a girl, I really pay attention to the needs he talks about in his books. I just came back from LA on business and witnessed all kinds of interactions going on between couples I met, which I can now really relate to in terms of the dynamics of the relationships. I now have a better understanding of what is actually going on. In my opinion, I don’t believe that Franks books are a pick up guide. I do however believe they will truly enhance your relationship and your general interactions with women. GET THE BOOKS it's well worth it!!! -Warrior1

Hey Frank - I bought your first book last year when I was going through my divorce and it really helped me going forward when I start dating again. I look forward to reading your next books. Yes - everything out of a woman’s mouth and I will always remember this. You have valuable insights that I will forever think about and memorize and stamp in my brain when I start dating again. I have learned so much from you and yes, I will email you with my thoughts. I know I won't be disappointed. You have also motivated me to write my own book. Thanks - Ereculus from Colorado

I was genuinely intrigued when I opened Frank B. Kermit's book "From Loser to Seducer." You see, this was a take I hadn't seen in the PUA materials thus far - a blow-by-blow (no pun intended) recounting of a change in mindset. As an advisor in this field, I find myself almost distancing myself from the awkward memories of what I once was to what I am now with women. Frank's courageous take on this gives an enlightening and original approach to understanding the trans-formative mindset. I especially like the way he marked time with a powerful metaphor of starting his age from the day he was 'reborn' into a new mindset and manner with women, choosing to reset the counter to zero and begin again. Frank succeeds in giving a very personal and intense recounting of his life experience and psychological state during perhaps the most painful parts of a man's life - at the moment of breaking away from the boy-man we can no longer be, and taking the leap of faith that I teach to men - to move on to the next level of life - to a powerful man's Alpha Manhood. Frank mixes in his "Frank" wisdom and insights along the path and gives the reader a genuine understanding of the pain ... and the pleasure of self-actualization. -Carlos Xuma Dating Advice Coach for Men http://www.datingdynamics.com

There are not enough pieces of paper for me to describe the benefits, I have received from Loser to Seducer. Every page took me back to different times in my life. With the turn of each page I felt changes happening in real time. I first noticed the loss of an old deep tension, I never knew was there. I had carried it around with me for decades. Next, every time I turned a page it felt like something was melting inside of me. Each page brought a memory, emotion, reflection, and release. I can't really describe it except that when I read Frank's book it was like shedding a cold icy skin that had developed to protect my inner core from harm. Now, I am confident enough to expose the real me to the world for the first time. I can't tell you, what a relief it is, to finally let the real me see day light. It is like I was always there just under the skin, but had built up so many protective layers that until now, it was impossible to see myself. They often talk about getting your inner game together. I agree. With Frank's blunt and sometimes brutal honestly, I connected with someone who made me realize that my past was normal for what was happening around me. I can forgive and let go of my past. Move forward with fear and excitement. Now, as I enter midlife, I look forward to really discover who I am, to follow my heart and let it lead me to a more fulfilling lifestyle. - L. in Ontario

This is for anyone considering reading the book “From Loser to Seducer” by Frank B. Kermit. This is a life-changing experience. The amount of work, energy and dedication that went into this work is truly unbelievable. I met Frank in Montreal in March 2006 and in the subsequent months; he changed my life, completely. I am now dating women I never thought would date me. This book is about Frank’s struggle in trying to reach deep inside his soul to completely bring out the seducer part of him and rid himself of his limiting beliefs. People ask for advice all the time, everyone wants to enhance their lives but we each have a perception of reality. We all understand what happens around us in a different way. For example, when a woman tells you “I have a boyfriend” some men might interpret it as “I’m not interested in you” and other as “I’m very interested in you but I wouldn’t want to be tagged as a slut if anything is to happen between us”. The world is what we make of it. Frank has been on both sides, he’s gone from not understanding a woman’s reality, to, in my honest opinion, breaking down a woman’s reality into an understandable science. In this book, he takes you through his journey, allowing you to experience all of the different moments with him, while going from an average guy, to a real man. Frank, through his life story, thanks to an enormous amount of education and experience has written this exceptional book, which I think both men and women of all ages, who’d want to enhance their love lives and that of their partner(s), should read, over and over again. - PZN the Player

I know, I know... I bought this book in the summer and was even at the book signing, but I never got around to finally reading it. Having finally read it, you realize that this is one of those things you shoulda done earlier. In his book, Kermit talks about a lot of things, especially his road to recovery in his dating life, but what struck me the hardest was that I never knew that his ultimate goal was to have children with the woman he was madly in love with. "One night while we were in bed together, I saw the face of my children with her, in her face... Freaked me out." You are not the only one freaking out here, buddy. I never knew how deeply you truly loved this woman. Most stories I hear were just about a man who was crazy about his girl... but never did I hear it put in this way. "...I actually envisioned watching our kids born, grow up and have families of their own..." I really didn't expect it to be this deep... and so I rarely ever get this emotional when I read a story about someone's life. But, this hit me in a different way. It's truly clear that you know exactly what you want out of all this. Its more than I can say for myself and probably most other people I know. To all of you who bought the book but still have it sitting on your coffee tables like I did, do yourself a favor and read his story. It will change the way you see things... for the better. -Milachku In Montreal

I learned recently that when Frank B Kermit was intensely studying seduction material during his early stages of development, the majority of products he studied were mine. Frank is living proof that ANYONE can master this part of his life if he only applies himself. He was an average guy that hit a rock bottom, and like many other of my students, he had reached the end of his rope, and needed to find a way to get a hold of this part of his life once and for all. In my work, I deal with many guys that are on the verge of suicide from the frustration of not being good with women, and to see one of them totally turn his life around and succeed reminds me of why I got into this business. I am proud of him for what he has accomplished in From Loser to Seducer. But as interesting as his personal story is, he raises a question at the end of the book that only someone who has had real success with women would think to ask: "Can a seducer still find true love, when he has the skills to find love with many women?"...Good thinking there by Frank, and I hope all of you readers get to the place where you have enough success to ask that question of yourself and find your own answer. A great and inspiring book. -Ross Jeffries (www.speedseduction.biz):The only source of Speed Seduction® Seminars and the 2007 Speed Seduction® new product line.

I really like what you have done. I have to say, that I am surprised (in a really good way) at how well it is written. Also, I never really knew how much I meant to you--which sounds silly, but maybe this was part of our communication -- or maybe I was so much a figment of your imagination, or obsession, that how you felt was never communicated to me in a way I could ever understand. I know that you keep a lot inside, and hide your emotions, so maybe this is why I didn't know--all I saw was your clinginess (so long ago when we first went out) ...You have completely transformed yourself as a human being....maybe we had to go through similar things to "grow up"?! . And for it to come full circle and to see your experience is kind of amazing to me. Who would have thought when we met each other back then that you would write this book, and that all of this would happen? I am surprised to say that I even agree with what you have written about Harem Management. I wouldn't have thought I would but you give some good advice and try to weed out the manipulators, which is good. I still don't think it is a healthy lifestyle, but the way you have presented it is interesting. Anyway, your book is amazing. I like the way you edited the book and interspersed bits of information with personal stories--I didn't expect to be such a big part of the book, either. Since I am somewhat modest, and do not think of myself often, it is weird to see how I have had such a big effect on someone else's life--I'm sorry if I hurt you--I didn't mean to. I am a bit shocked, actually--I may need to process this over a long amount of time. I used to wish for people to write books or stories about me--I know this is about you, but it is also about me. I think you have just helped in a small way--I feel "bigger" now, broader, more present and more here. I know that I have been more of a major part of your life than you have been in mine--because I let go more easily--or had to. You seem more like the Frank that I met and loved when we just started going out than at any other point in time since then. I am glad about that. - The Ex-Fiance

Have you ever been hurt in a relationship? Can that really be called a valid question? Therefore, the book From Loser to Seducer will openly put into words and confirm some emotions and experiences that you have already been through, this being equally true if you are a man or a woman. Like Kermit, you may be finding ways to get over the hurt and deceptions caused not only by the failure to develop the relationship you wanted with a partner that you loved, but also to identify the pitfalls that you personally created by building illusions about love and the people for whom you felt this emotion, or an emotion that you confused with love. In his book, Kermit first explains his one-dimensional approach to relationships with women in his early involvements, that being the approach of a nice, accommodating guy who hoped that the desired woman would recognize his qualities and caring ways, and of course, reciprocate his feelings. After numerous times of being hurt, Kermit understands the need to develop alternate ways of relating to women. This is not a calculated choice to seduce, although it may seem so in the book, but rather a very real need to survive the love experience. Kermit goes on to inform the readers of the many relationships he becomes engaged in, as well as the different love life styles experimented in order to decode the many paradoxes of the love situation and his understanding of women. One of these paradoxes is the fact that the most honest, vulnerable, giving love, which he calls ‘’chump love’’, usually ends up with the ‘’lover’’ being taken for granted by the ‘’love object’’, at least in his experience. This therefore leads to the need to develop a strategy for the reality of the system of love. For many of us, this is against all the dreams we have of ideal love and its imagined rewards and fulfillments. Kermit explores this notion, bringing up the problem of the void created when the illusion of a true life love is stripped away by disappointing relationship experiences. In the book From Loser to Seducer, you will discover a man and his struggle with the love dilemmas faced by many of us as he weaves the stories of his diverse encounters into a dialogue which confirms what we may already know, but have not put into precise words. The language in the book is very much like spoken speech; Kermit, the narrator, is in a conversation with you, the reader. The language and punctuation styles are familiar, so very accessible to any reader. The relating of the experiences is blunt and unrefined. However, the concepts explored are related to the meaning that people attach to their ideas of relationships, and how satisfaction with love, life and self hinge on these belief systems. From that perspective, the book explores notions at a gut level. Even if you do not like what Kermit has to say, he makes you think, so it is well worth the read. Critique by: Daina Salciunas

I've been studying communication skills with women, for a couple years, so I know most of the theories. Even so, hearing the personal odyssey of one man from loser to seducer was inspiring. And every so often, between the stories of triumph and disaster, a realization would explode in my brain that I hadn't even considered.... but on reflection made absolute sense. I credit Frank with giving me the idea of "seducer-in-training", which gives me the permission to make mistakes even as I work to improving every day. Most importantly he crystallized in my mind that the love of a seducer (or a seducer-in-training) isn't "square love" and it isn't "pimp love"... or even a hybrid of the two. It's just *predictable* love, no less real than the love described by sonnet writers. It just means that you don't cast yourself defenseless into the environment... and with control and power comes the ability to show magnanimity to the one you do love. - AJ, Toronto

This story is so extraordinary that it could be made into a movie, and that it could start with "once upon a time" ( almost like a fairytale???), and that the methods and ways of changing yourself described there are universal and could be applied outside of dating. It's a very interesting book, the changes that Frank B Kermit made are amazing. I don't understand though, why Frank B Kermit says women will not like it. Yes it is centered on sex, but there is so much about respect and understanding. I liked it, couldn't really identify myself with anyone, but it made me ask some questions about the 'testing'...It will be extremely interesting to know when I do that...It's a good idea to have little chapters, it is easier to read, I read it in 2 days. Frank B Kermit could actually write any kind of book, not only about dating or relationships. Almost anything about how to get something that you've been longing for. It's very generous to share his transformation but especially his past, people tend to close those parts and never talk about them. -Anonymous Female Reader In Canada

I just read your book 'From Loser to Seducer'. Good book - I highlighted a lot of things that you said. I sympathize with you as to your journey - I never really had problems with women until I got married to a woman for 20 years. You touched on 2 things that stuck out in my mind. 1. I failed to meet her emotional needs 2. I failed her unconscious tests over twenty years. Thanks again Frank - You really dived deep into your thoughts, actions, beliefs and have shed a lot of light on my issues and how I can avoid making the same mistakes in the future as I meet other women. -G.G.

Frank B. Kermit: a story of pain, courage and development, that inspired me in so many ways. Before I read this book, I had hoped to become successful with women; now that I know the story of Frank, I know I am going to be successful if I put as much energy and devotion in this area of my life as him. With his direct and honest explanation of his development, Frank showed me what it really means to be a man: it’s about taking responsibility for your life, setting clear goals and doing whatever it takes to achieve them, facing your biggest fears and always persevere, even in the darkest moments of your life. After the last page of this book, I felt an overwhelming desire to work on myself and become the man that I’m destined to be. Frank gives you something so valuable that many humans have killed and died for it. He gives you faith: faith in yourself, an incredible felling that give us the power to change our life as we want it to be. By knowing all the challenges that Frank has been through, I have the opportunity to anticipate those hard moments that I will have to face one day or another. I can get myself ready for these challenges, and never let them threat my moral and my self-esteem. There is something very powerful when you hear about someone who as faced the same pain, the same challenges as you, and has succeeded in the end. After this book, you will see yourself succeeding: you’ll know that you can do it, because Frank did it. If you want to feel the power of faith, this book is a must. –M.G.

Your book inspired me to examine my life story, by de-constructing my past behaviors and past events with women, with friends, etc., and begin my journey of coming to peace with the demons that I've been struggling with up to this day. I had no idea how tormented your life was. Its inspiring for me to read about how you pulled yourself up from all those major challenges you faced in your life. And I am glad you did because now you are living proof that anyone who works hard enough to design a life that he really wants can indeed achieve it. Its one thing to read about someones successes; its a completely different reality when you meet such a person in real life. -N.N.

Hey, Frank! I just finished your book. Your story was a good and inspiring read. It is a gripping story that drives home your point that real life does not work like a Hollywood movie, esp. since it doesn't end with "and they lived happily ever after". You have some really good, compiled insights that are included, especially the 7-point list of important principles for any seducer-in-training, and the harem-management stuff. Your other stories besides that of your ex-fiance, are inspiring to read, even for someone who has read quite a few mind-blowing stories already. - T.H.

I read it in one sitting! I haven't done that in ages. Really, it was great -- it was so honest and raw, compelling. I don't want to think to much about what I say, because I just want to express how moved I am by it. I've been doing a lot of reading and I do have a part of me that still feels guilty and shameful for having started down this path, but your story reaffirmed the 'rightness' of all of this. I mean that not in good vs evil (that is something I'm still coming to grips with) but in the TRUTH of it all. This is the way things are, and deliberately rejecting or not adapting to reality is just delusional. I'm grateful we met, and to have helped each other at least in some measure (I know that you've helped me a great deal). - V.S.

An easy read - a book you won`t want to put down until the last page. With stories, lessons and tips about how to, and how not to, handle women, this is the kind of book every man who has issues about the opposite sex ought to invest in. Invest in this book and you invest in your life, especially if you have ever been put down by the woman who you thought liked you. Don`t despair - you are not alone anymore. - S.M.H.

Finished reading the book last night. I just couldn't put it down. Now I know exactly what you mean when we first met and you said you had traveled down that road. There were a lot of events and situations in your book that I connected with, because I had been through some of those things. I think it's great that you wrote a book about your process. With the other eBooks out there, what we're seeing is the finished product, not when they were going through the struggling in learning process, which can get discouraging for people who don't realize that there is a process, it's not just read the eBook/listen to the CDs/watch the DVDs and instantly become a ladies man. So many questions to ask you but those can wait. But it's amazing the life you've lived so far, and to think there's so much more to come. - R.S.

I was excited to learn that Frank B Kermit has just released a book about his journey, "From Loser to Seducer". One of the things that makes Frank's book unique is that with most material out there, we see the final product without the process. Edited out are the years of struggle, nights of blowouts and FU reports, of mis calibrations and failed tests. So it's like seeing a picture of an egg and then a picture of a souffle. There's a lot that happens in between, which is why those who are studying written material on their own find the concepts especially difficult to understand and the challenges so difficult to handle. Some people can be stuck for a long time, when a few simple changes could move them boldly forward. Frank's book connects the dots and fills in the gaps by weaving the story of his life, from the day he made his choice to master this part of his life to the realization that he had achieved more than he dreamed possible. Just flipping through the book, the story and ideas are broken down into little discrete sections. It gives the book a sense of being easy to read and digest, because it is. For those on the go, you can easily read a passage or two as time permits and quickly learn something new. The language is very crisp and direct. Frank is "frank, because he has to be." At 158 pages, there is no filler, no long-winded history lessons or scientific explanations, just the facts that get you results woven into a story that anyone who has ever struggled with this part of their lives can relate. For anyone struggling with tests, Frank B Kermit is a MASTER at passing them. Even those new to his teachings, know that passing these tests means the difference between getting the girl or going home alone. Tests are passed by meeting the emotional need that triggered the test in the first place, and Frank B Kermit breaks down an especially difficult conversation line-by-line. Other things you will learn include: the importance of storytelling, how peacocking really works (no, it's not as simple as ordering a blinky shirt from a web site), how to maintain a rock solid frame, and leading a woman to the bedroom. The book is an actual physical book with a beautiful glossy cover and costs less than most eBooks. - P.L.

Frank Kermit was your typical emasculated adult male -- a product of being raised in a society where men are no longer taught how to be men, a society where in fact men are programmed to act in ways that are anything but masculine. Three very painful events, starting in adolescence and culminating in the loss of his wife-to-be, provided him with the motivation to learn how to attract and keep high-value women. Frank resolved that he would do whatever it took to accomplish this goal, and this book is his personal story of the ups and downs he experienced as he persisted in his efforts.... which are chronicled in not months but years. This is one of the most inspiring journeys of self-discovery that I've read in a long time.

An open, honest and sometimes brutal account of one mans journey of self discovery. Through his eyes we are able to relive with him his pains and triumphs and ultimately his joy of revelation. It is a journey that he says was a personal choice. A decisive choice to change his life, to attempt to look at the world from a different point of view. Yet, in reading his story, it can be seen that truly it was a universal choice and what one may call a “happy accident.” His journey brings forth a world of information for men and I believe for women too. For although women are not his target audience, they too can benefit from reading this book. Some of his rules such as the notion of ceasing to look toward others to solve your problems, making your love life a priority not a second thought in your life, and the deceptively simple learn who you are, are themes which resonate with both men and women. His information on creating a persona is a unique approach to overcoming fear and finding an inner strength. It is easy to see how many men would find this a useful tool in overcoming shyness. By creating a persona they are able to live a fantasy side of themselves. A side which possesses and promotes to the world a confidence they cannot yet feel. Now this book is not perfect, the use of a shifting non linear time line is often confusing and the authors’ habit of repetition can be maddening, but the enlightening content far outweighs any flaws that can be found. In addition, this reader believes that Frank B. Kermit has found a hidden goldmine in his theory of the 10 Emotional Needs of Women. It will enlighten men and disturb women with its accuracy! This reader encourages anyone who reads this book or wants to read it to also read the authors second book Everything Out of her Mouth is a Test: A Mans Guide to Satisfying the Emotional Needs of Women. As for Loser to Seducer, if you are looking for a distinctly different but down to earth approach to self love and acceptance then this is the book for you. -Female Reader in Toronto, Ontario